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Girl Talk
Okay, so this is my third page of my website and I wanted to make it about advice. Specifically for girls.
Mean girls?
We've all seen the movies were they make a specific girl an outcast, well let's talk about real life. Majority of the time if someone or a group of girls seem not to like you it's because they are truly insecure about themselves and honestly wished they had a taste of what you had. Although they won't show it but, they're just as normal as anyone else. How to overcome bullying? Stop being a victum. Stand up for yourself and know you have people who love and support you. I know it seems really scary but wheather you simply ignore them or just hold your head higher it will make a difference. When they see what they thought of as the "weak" become stronger 99.9 % of the time they will back down into reality.
Are you different?
The definition of different to me is someone who is not afraid to be themselves. You don't ever have to be like someone else, and the more you try, the more you lose yourself. It's more than okay if you don't really like the air forces everyone else is trying to wear right now or it's okay if you don't perfer to listen to those same rappers you hear on the radio. IT'S OKAY! The worst thing you could ever do to yourself is try to fit in with everyone by changing yourself. Don't worry if right now you don't have a friend who shares the same intrest as you because as long as you be yourself eventually you will.
Sports are for boys.
Ever heard someone say this before? Probably. Growing up I've always been in sports, so for me I've heard this plenty of times. I play basketball which most people believe men do better. False. Although men in the NBA get paid WAYYY more money than women in the WNBA that doesn't mean they're any better than us but just that when it comes to that we have a huge disadvantage. Boys are always going to think they're better, so what better way to prove them wrong than becoming greater than them, faster than them, and better than them. Practice, practice, practice, that's all I did to become better than the boys and to become stronger than the boys.
New School?
Changing schools is the worst. You go from the most popular kid to kid who everyone is calling new been there done that. My advice for being the "new kid" is to be yourself because if not you'll have to be that person you're not for a long time, just to fit in for a while. Don't feed into their drama, when moving schools you might expierence that group of girls who are trying to feed you into the lastest drama, crushes, and serets. Don't feed in. I say this because you don't know if this same person telling you all of this stuff is best friends with the person who she was talking about. You never know. The main thing to remember when being "the new kid" is to be yourself and let everything fall in after.
